Longing for love

 Longing for love

As a human being, we long for it. As individuals, we aspire to it and infact we cannot live without it for long. 

LOVE:

we have a common dialogue about it constantly. through books, movies and talk shows. We deminish ourselves to watch and stare in hungry captivate at the latest bachelor or bachelorette reality TV show. distinguish our minds into areas of fantasy so that tomorrow. as we head out to countenance the world, it will appear less lonely. Many of us are afraid of love, with all of it’s difficulties, so we deprecate it and turn our longing into a fantasy infatuation of romance.

And yet, after giving it so much of our valuable attention, still, we find true love deceptive. We locate that our desire to lock love in and assurance it’s existence is like trying to hold cloud in our hands, which we keep trying to do in the aspires we will catch a cloud and pin it down.

Is it because love seems so big that we feel the need to decrease it to common paces? As grown persons, we pray for love, we arrange for love, sometimes we implore for love, but when the opportunity to love is finally offered, often, we see it as something else.

Often, we see it as a burden

We have heardit before: Love is patient. Love is kind. But if love is anything, it is much more than a concise truth.Getting into the burden of what we all long for, love is a fruit that smacks both bitter and sweet. It is tough to consume and it is suffered satiating. And love is the only thing that can save us.  

Love is a disposition to stand in the fire of life and not shorten back. it’ footing by your teenage child’s side as they grope their way through an addiction . it’s not running away when your partner has a serious form of cancer and you must be the primary caregiver. however the marriage has been on the rocks for years. it’s antipicating that children who cross our borders alone and agitated and hungry must be cared for as the first regard, with the second being our potential to solve the issue of where they will end up.

And, it turns out, if you are out of integrity in any areas of your life with ability to love, then it will loss blood over into every other area of your life. Because love is something that comes from within, it’s a perspective and an action, and if we are off base with our interpretation, then that perspective gets carried with us where ever we go and we estimate it out onto every condition and person we come across.

In sequence for us to truly satisfy our desire for love, we must let it stirrs inside of us. We must become that which we wish to experience in the world, we must source love first from within. And yet, this appears unreachable to many of us.

But is it? If you are hungry for love examine small steps. paddle your way gently into the deep waters of love. As I reviewed in a recent post, one small step is to stop the harsh within.


 Love is so grimy, and sometimes dark, and always it makes us feel more alive when we are in it. existence loving is not all chocolates and roses. It’s about living dual, pain and pleasure, confusion and understanding. It’s about sitting in the unknown, the mystery, and empower your heart to stay open to the highest possibilities.


Love is excitable by nature because love is about living present, living with what is. And that, for many of us, is agonizing. We ask for love, but when we are given shuttered people to help, we judge their faults and wonder why God doesn’t give us what we have been praying for. This allows intimate relationships to grow. Then, it’s lottery when you meet your partner's Right.